What is Fierce Intimacy?
Fierce Intimacy is a way of relating with more passion, intensity, authenticity and clarity than ever before. It’s a way of being totally yourself while also honouring the preciousness of your relationship.
One of the great gifts of BDSM is the way it enables you to handle more intensity. Fierce Intimacy is what happens when you welcome this into all aspects of your relationship. It’s a way of being together that focusses on courage and openness. It’s “Bring it on” rather than “I’m not sure how much of that I can handle."
Fierce Intimacy is about leaving no stone unturned in your quest to be real and alive with one another. You may think “I’ll just shelf that, it’s not important.” But each time you do that, it creates a bit of distance between you, making intimacy more difficult. The more times you do this, the more distance build up between you.
Our approach encourages you to look at what's been shelved and give it space. We support you to ask the difficult questions and give honest answers. We help you to clear space so that you can really feel each other again.
A lot of people talk about how passion declines over time. We hear it said about as if it were normal, inevitable even. We don’t agree! We believe that passion decreases because of what's not been said and the distance this creates. By being brave and looking at what remains unresolved, your passion will come back stronger and better than before.
Ultimately being fierce with each other leads to more depth too. You may find yourself sharing things that you’ve never spoken about before, or bringing forth desires that have hitherto been totally private. Imagine how wonderful it’ll be to share these things with your beloved(s)!
It’s hard to put Fierce Intimacy into a few words, but we hope we’ve given you a sense of what we’re talking about and you can see how it will energise and enliven your relationship.
If you have any questions about this, please get in touch with us: hello [at] fierceintimacyretreats.com